Hello India 😊😊 confidence jaroori hai --- confidence har kisi ki life mai bohut important hai.har time mai, har situation mai or har ugg mai.confidence bohut jaroori hai--acche present mai jinne ke liye, acche future creat karne ke liye,khulkar jinne ke liye, successfull banne ke liye,apne point of view's sabke samne rakne ke liye,apne ideas explain karne ke liye.interview's clear karne ke liye, speech bolne ke liye,good personality ke liye,aache se communicate karne ke liye,kush rehane ke liye,acche chances (moka) pane ke liye or bhi bohut sari chizo ke liye confidence bohut jaroori hai. What is confidence,in my words--- According to me, confidence is a positive attitude to show's are ideas, point of views and knowledge to others. Confidence always work likes our image translater,our verbal translater in a impact full manner. Problem face's in life, due to less confidence😩😩--- school ke wo din yaad hai jab ham ghar se bohut kushi -khusi school jate the or sochte the ki hum bohut sare dost banayege. Leakin hamare dost toh bante hi nahi the kyu ki ham bohut kam bolte the,or jo ekka-dukka dost bante bhi the wo bhi bohut muskil se,hamare dost kam Isliye bante the kyu-ki ham bohut kam bolte the, ya fir kahe khulkar nahi bolte the, interesting bate (talk) nahi karte the. Or essa Isliye hota tha kyu-ki hamare under confidence ki kami thi. Yaad hai wo time jab hamari teacher hamse koi question puchti thi,or jab ham answer dene ke liye khade hote the tab ham thik se answer nahi de pate the, hamari jabaan ladkhadane lagti thi,ham atak-atak ke bolne lagte the,pura answer hamare mind Mai mix ho jata tha ,pura ka pura answer hi bhull jate the or pure blank ho jate the .OR Wahi dusara student Jo study mai sirf thik -thak hai average hai wo bohut asani Se answer de deta hai.,kyu-ki uska confidence bohut accha hai. Kitni baar essa huaa hai ki aapka written exam bohut accha huwa hai Leakin aapka vaiwa ya practical bohut karab. Kitni baar esa huwa hai ki app stage par speech dene gai ho or app blank ho gaye ho. Kitni baar essa huwa hai ki aapne Apni job loose kardi ho, kyu-ki appka written accha huwa hai Leakin interview mai app fail ho gai ho. Due to less of confidence . Reason's of less confidence 😥😥--- #agar app shy hai yani sarmile hai toh ye ek reason hai less confidence ka . #agar app jada sochte hai jata over thinking karte hai, or hamesha sochte hai ki log aap ke baare mai kya sochege ,toh ye bhi ek reason hai less confidence ka. #agar app Apni appearance ko lekar over consiace rehate hai toh ye bhi ek reason hai less confidence ka. #Agar app apne app ko kisi bhi chiz mai kam aakte hai or dusro ko aakne dete hai hai ,toh ye bhi ek reason hota hai less confidence ka . #hamesha dusro ko kudh Se har chiz mai behtar samajhna, less confidence ka reason hai . #acche se communicate na karpana,baat karte waqt ghabrana, attakna tutlana ya haklana (stammer )bhi less confidence ke karan hai . Conclusion and solutions 👍👍-- pehli baat toh ye hai ki confidence har kisi ke andar hota hai ,kisi mai jada toh kisi mai kam,bas hame jarurat hai Apna confidence boost karne ki usse ek level mai lane ki.kisi bhi situation mai Apna confidence ek positive level mai lane ki ,nahi kam nahi jada bas ek level mai lane ki kyu-ki jada confidence (over confidence) bhi accha nahi hai. How--#confidence kam hai kyu ki courage kam hai or courage kam hai kyu ki confidence kam hai,issliye hame jarurat hai Apni himmat(courage) badane ki or apne sare daro ko katam karne ki..... #agar hame dar hai ki log hamare baare mai kya sochege ,toh hame Apna ye dar kam karna padega. OR farak na padne wala attitude banana pade GA .(I don't care). #agar aapko Apni physical appearance ki chinta hai or aap soch rahe hai ki appke kapdhe acche nahi hai toh guys change it,agar app Indian clothes pahante hai toh Indian hi pehniye Leakin latest updated design wale ,agar app western dress pehante hai toh wahi pehniye Leakin latest designs wale .apne hair style ko app apne according or trend ke according change kar sakte hai re-creat kar sakte hai. Or jo bhi apky accessories hai, like watches and rings sandals shouse acche Se carry kar sakte hai .Agar app apne dressing ko time ke according change karegi toh app kudh ba khud thodhi confident how jaigi . #OR sabse jada important hai logo ke saath gulna milna baat karna. OR logo ke saath bat karne ke liye appki communication skills acchi honi chaiye or issme ek or baat hai ki agar app logo se baat karte ho toh automatically aapki communicate skill acchi ho jati hai or sharp ho jaati hai .---communication mai problem aati hai 2resons se --1.language OR dusra talking 2 topics.--toh language mai aapko kya karna hai ki aapko aapke saamne wale ki language sikhni padegi ya samne wale ko apni language sikhani padegi ya fir aap dono kar sakte ho .---dusara hai topic ,aapko pata hona chaiye ki aapke aas-paas konse topic charcha mai hai kis topic ke upper log gossip kr rahe gai.aapko Dekhna padega ki log kis political topic ke upper baat kr rahe hai, kis topic se entertains ho rahe hai. OR agar ye bhi samajh na aaye toh bas bekhof- bedar hokar baat kijiye jis topic par app baat karna chate hai Leakin confidently. #and guys its just doesn't matter what is your skin color, just be happy be confident be fearless. (thank you)
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