#Dress code👔👚👖👚 and different interest🙄🙄

                          😊 Hello India 😊                                                                                                       ye title dekh kar aap ko samajh mai nahi aaraha hoga ki aakhir aaj Mai kya kehana chaati hoo,mai kya blog likhne wali hoo,kya post karne wali hoo, aap soch rahe hoge ki kahi mai trends,fasion ya logo ki hobbies ke baare mai likhne wali hoo,leakin essa nahi hai- mera blog kis baare mai hai ye aapko thodhi hi dare mai pata chal jaiga.👍👍                                                                                         guy's aap logo ne kisi party ke dress code ke baare mai tho sunna hoga ya T.V par dekha hoga,  jisme log xyz party ke theme ya- dress code ke according dress-up hokar jate hai.or wo theme pre-planned hoti hai jisme logo se kaha jata hai ki aap log iss dress code ke according dress-up hokar aiyee.                                                                                                       Leakin kuch temes or dress code bohut saal pehle hi logo ke liye fix or decide kar diye gaye hai .or inhe iss trahe Se fix kiya gaya hai ki logo ko aaj-tak Unke dress code yaad dilaane ki jaroorat nahi padhi hai. Ye hamare samaaj ke program mai "by default settings" ki trahe fix kar diye gaye hai or logo ke inse koi problem bhi nahi hai, sayaad logo ka iss par dhyaan nahi gaya hai, ya logo ko iski aadat ho gai hai.                                                                                                 Chaliye btati hoo ki aakhir ye dress code kya hai ----guy's aap sab ne politicians ko toh dekha hoga. or unko dekha hai toh Unke ✌✌dress code ko bhi dekha hoga. Yaad ayya ,toh aap sab ne ye bhi notice kiya hoga ki wo log kurta-pazama,kurta with Nehru jakits ,kurta with modi jakits ,kurta or jinse ,pehante hai. Or jinse bhi koi -koi pehanta hai .----kya aap logo ne kabhi bhi kisi politician ko shirt ,T-shirt 👕, jakits ,sport jakits, cool jakits, blazer pehante huwe dekha hai ??? Jahir si baat hai nahi dekha hoga, or sayad ham log Kabhi dekhe-ge-bhi nahi. Kyu-ki ye "power of dress code hai".or ye "power of dress code " sirf senior politicians  ko hi nahi balki young  politicians ko bhi influence karti hai. Tabhi toh koi newcomer or yuwa neta bhi politics mai jate hi kurta pajama wala dress code start kr deta hai. OR main baat toh ye hai ki koi unse ye dress code follow karne ke liye kehata nahi hai,or Nahi force karta hai Tab-bhi wo (young politicians) iss dress code ko follow karte hai . Sayad unhe lagta hai ki agar unhone ye dress-code follow nahi kiya toh wo Apni politicians ki chawi (image ) nahi bana paige.                                                                                                                                   Abb baat karte hai different interest ki ----ham hamesha sochte hai ki agar koi insaan mazakiya kisam ka kush -mizaje insaan hai toh ham fata-fata ham apne dimag mai uski ye image bana late hai or sochte ki wo insaan kabhi bhi koi serious baat nahi kar sakta,or agar koi serious insaan hai toh wo kabhi koi positive baat nahi kar sakta,kabhi jada kush nahi rehe sakta . Issi traha ham sochte hai ki koi celebrity kabhi koi serious baat nahi kar sakta ,kisi serious topic par baat nahi kar sakta --kyu -ki wo iss trahe ke profession Se blong nahi karta .Or agar karta bhi had toh sirf publicity ke liye. Leakin essa nahi hai, kyu-ki agar essa hota toh aksay Kumar jo ek celebrity hai kabhi bhi serious topic par na bolte or nahi un par movie banate (toilet ek -prem gatha ,pad man).   OR  hamare country ke politicians jin-par bohut saari responsiblities hai wo kabhi ghum-fir nahi sakte, Kabhi dance nahi kar sakte ,kabhi gana nahi ga sakte ,kabhi khul-kar has nahi sakte, kyu-ki wo bohut serious profession se blong karte hai. Leakin koi bhi kisi bhi profession ka ho,  wo hota toh hai ek insaan  hi hai -Isliye serious thinking wala insaan bhi Kabhi non serious ho sakta hai ,or kisi entertainment profession wala insaan bhi serious ho sakta hai.or dono background walo ke bhi different interest ho sakte hai.                                                       #guy's plz follow my all blogs on www.rubaruwithsonam.blogspot.com par.                               (Thankyou )

#Confidence 🙋life mai kitna important hai🤔....... Confidence buildup kase Kare🗣🗣.

                          Hello India 😊😊                                                                                                      confidence jaroori hai --- confidence har kisi ki life mai bohut important hai.har time mai, har situation mai or har ugg mai.confidence bohut jaroori hai--acche present mai jinne ke liye, acche future creat karne ke liye,khulkar jinne ke liye, successfull banne ke liye,apne point of view's sabke samne rakne ke liye,apne ideas explain karne ke liye.interview's clear karne ke liye, speech bolne ke liye,good personality ke liye,aache se communicate karne ke liye,kush rehane ke liye,acche chances (moka) pane ke liye or bhi bohut sari chizo ke liye confidence bohut jaroori hai.                                                                                                                                                           What is confidence,in my words--- According to me, confidence is a positive attitude to show's are ideas, point of views and knowledge to others.                                                                                                                       Confidence always work likes our image translater,our verbal translater in a impact full manner.                                                                                                                                            Problem face's in life, due to less confidence😩😩--- school ke wo din yaad hai jab ham ghar se bohut kushi -khusi school jate the or sochte the ki hum bohut sare dost banayege. Leakin hamare dost toh bante hi nahi the kyu ki ham bohut kam bolte the,or jo ekka-dukka dost bante bhi the wo bhi bohut muskil se,hamare dost kam Isliye bante the kyu-ki ham bohut kam bolte the, ya fir kahe khulkar nahi bolte the, interesting bate (talk) nahi karte the. Or essa Isliye hota tha kyu-ki hamare under confidence ki kami thi.                                                                                                                          Yaad hai wo time jab hamari teacher hamse koi question puchti thi,or jab ham answer dene ke liye khade hote the tab ham thik se answer nahi de pate the, hamari jabaan ladkhadane lagti thi,ham atak-atak ke bolne lagte the,pura answer hamare mind Mai mix ho jata tha ,pura ka pura answer hi bhull jate the or pure blank ho jate the .OR Wahi dusara student Jo study mai sirf thik -thak hai average hai wo bohut asani Se answer de deta hai.,kyu-ki uska confidence bohut accha hai.                                                                                                                                                 Kitni baar essa huaa hai ki aapka written exam bohut accha huwa hai Leakin aapka vaiwa ya practical bohut karab.                                                                                                        Kitni baar esa huwa hai ki app stage par speech dene gai ho or app blank ho gaye ho.                                                                                                                                                              Kitni baar essa huwa hai ki aapne Apni job loose kardi ho, kyu-ki appka written accha huwa hai Leakin interview mai app fail ho gai ho. Due to less of confidence .                                                                                                     Reason's of less confidence 😥😥--- #agar app shy hai yani sarmile hai toh ye ek reason hai less confidence ka .                            #agar app jada sochte hai jata over thinking karte hai, or hamesha sochte hai ki log aap ke baare mai kya sochege ,toh ye bhi ek reason hai less confidence ka.                  #agar app Apni appearance ko lekar over consiace rehate hai toh ye bhi ek reason hai less confidence ka.                                                  #Agar app apne app ko kisi bhi chiz mai kam aakte hai or dusro ko aakne dete hai hai ,toh ye bhi ek reason hota hai less confidence ka .                                                            #hamesha dusro ko kudh Se har chiz mai behtar samajhna, less confidence ka reason hai .                                                                  #acche se communicate na karpana,baat karte waqt ghabrana, attakna tutlana ya  haklana (stammer )bhi less confidence ke karan hai .                                                                                                                                               Conclusion and solutions 👍👍-- pehli baat toh ye hai ki confidence har kisi ke andar hota hai ,kisi mai jada toh kisi mai kam,bas hame jarurat hai Apna confidence boost karne ki usse ek level mai lane ki.kisi bhi situation mai Apna confidence ek positive level mai lane ki ,nahi kam nahi jada bas ek level mai lane ki kyu-ki jada confidence (over confidence) bhi accha nahi hai.                                                                                                                                                  How--#confidence kam hai kyu ki courage kam hai or courage kam hai kyu ki confidence kam hai,issliye hame jarurat hai Apni himmat(courage) badane ki or apne sare daro ko katam karne ki.....                                     #agar hame dar hai ki log hamare baare mai kya sochege ,toh hame Apna ye dar kam karna padega. OR farak na padne wala attitude banana pade GA .(I don't care).                                                                                    #agar aapko Apni physical appearance ki chinta hai or aap soch rahe hai ki appke kapdhe acche nahi hai toh guys change it,agar app Indian clothes pahante hai toh Indian hi pehniye Leakin latest updated design wale ,agar app western dress pehante hai toh wahi pehniye Leakin latest designs wale .apne hair style ko app apne according or trend ke according change kar sakte hai re-creat kar sakte hai. Or jo bhi apky accessories hai, like watches and rings sandals shouse acche Se carry kar sakte hai .Agar app apne dressing ko time ke according change karegi toh app kudh ba khud thodhi confident how jaigi .                                                                                                                                           #OR sabse jada important hai logo ke saath gulna milna baat karna. OR logo ke saath bat karne ke liye appki communication skills acchi honi chaiye or issme ek or baat hai ki agar app logo se baat karte ho toh automatically aapki communicate skill acchi ho jati hai or sharp ho jaati hai .---communication mai problem aati hai 2resons se --1.language OR dusra talking 2 topics.--toh language mai aapko kya karna hai ki aapko aapke saamne wale ki language sikhni padegi ya samne wale ko apni language sikhani padegi ya fir aap dono kar sakte ho .---dusara hai topic ,aapko pata hona chaiye ki aapke aas-paas konse topic charcha mai hai kis topic ke upper log gossip kr rahe gai.aapko Dekhna padega ki log kis political topic ke upper baat kr rahe hai, kis topic se entertains ho rahe hai. OR agar ye bhi samajh na aaye toh bas bekhof- bedar hokar baat kijiye jis topic par app baat karna chate hai Leakin confidently.                                                                                                         #and guys its just doesn't matter what is your skin color, just be happy be confident be fearless.                                                                                                                                                     (thank you) 

#Double thinking of society........😷😷😷.

Hello India,                                                                                                                                                        guy's aap logo ne mera wo wala blog padha hai jiska title hai ---Badalta samaaj 2G speed agar nahi padha hai toh padh li-jiye kyu-ki aaj ka blog usse kafhi relate karta hai.aaj ham baat karege samaaj ke 2 face ki,2 thinking ki,or dohre samaaj ki-dohri soch ki.                                                                                                                                                      Jesa mene pehale kaha tha ki samaaj badal raha dhire -dhire hi sahi 2G speed sehi sahi Leakin badal toh raha hai.aaj samaaj ki soch bohut badli hai,khas-kar ke ladkiyo ko lekar.maa-baap ki soch bhi bohut badli hai unki betiyo ko Lekar -aaj maa-baap betiyo ko sanskaar ke saath-saath bohut acchi education bhi dete hai,wo sirf Apni betiyo ko basic education nahi dete, balki unhe highly-educate bhi karte hai.wo chaate hai ki unki beti na Sirf padhe-likhe balki padh-likh kr independent bane,wo chaate hai ki unki beti financially independent bane-socialy independent 👩 bane.wo chaate hai ki unki beti Apni identity bnaya -apni pehechaan bnaye or Apna or apne khandaan ka naam ROSAN Kare.aaj ke mata pita kudh Apni betiyo se puchte hai ki beta tumhe Kon sa course karna hai,tumhe kis chize mai interest hai -tum kya banna chati ho.jo parents pehle Apni sari investment ,Apni sari savings apne beto pr spend karte the.aaj wohi parents Apni savings or investment Apni beti pr bhi proudly spend karna chate hai.                                                                                                 

#ladki ki shaadi karwana👰👰/ladki ko higher educate karna📚📙📘📒🖋.........???

Hello India,                                                                                                                                                       shadhi,ladka ho ya ladki shadhi dono ki hi life ka important part hota hai.or jab baat ladki ki shaadi ki ho toh hamara samaaj bohut hi samvedansheel (sensitive )hota hai ,bohut alert hota hai.kyu-ki ladkiyo ki shaadi krwana✌✌ ek punye /sawab ka kaam samajhta hai-hamara samaaj .iss liye jo ladkiya financially week hoti hai, ya kahe ki unki family financially week hoti hai. Unke liye ye samaaj contribute karta hai, or us ladki ki shaadi kafhi acche se karwata hai.                                                                                                              OR sirf samaaj hi nahi bohut sare( N. G. O) bhi, ladkiyo ki shaadi ke liye time to time koi na koi aayojan karte rehate hai.or us ladki ki nayi grahati ke liye kafhi sara saman bhi arrange karte hai.                                                                                                             OR sirf samaaj hi nahi balki rishtedaar (relative ) bhi jo kisi or par money spent karne se pehale kafhi baar sochte hai Leakin apne relative's ki beti ki shaadi ke liye dil se contribute karte hai kyu ki ladki ki shaadi karwana sawab ka kaam hota hai, duniya ka har inshaan ye special sawab kamana chata hai. Jo ki bohut acchi baat hai.                                                                           

#Pimples/acne problem 🤔🤔???.......and no more remedy 🙏🙏🙏

                            Hello  😊  India                                                                                                         About pimples and acne .......                                Pimples problem puri duniya ke logo ki ek essi problem hai jo acche -acche ka face or confidence kharaab kr deti hai. Ye jada tar teenagers  ko unki teenage mai hoti hai (kishore awastha) or ye teenage hoti hai 13to18 kabhi kabhi ye problem late start hoti hai jase 19to24.                                                                                                                                                     Pimples/acne problem kyu hoti hai......             Pimple or acne problems hone ke bohut sare reasons hote hai .----jase # body mai harmonal changes -ye teenage mai hote hai. #indigestion ,constipation ,stomach heat. #because of sun rays and dirt -oil -pollution.#unhealthy food -oily and spicy food and lot's of junk food. #and in very hot 🔥 summer season or uski humidity mai. Iske aage mai etc.. Nahi likhu gi kyu ki  mane sare reasons likhdiye hai.                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Kab tak rehate hai (time duration of pimples) .........                                                     Pimples/acne Kab tak rahege ye depend karta hai -us insaan ke skin type pr uske treatment pr --kyu ki kisi -kisi ki skin pr 1ya2 pimples hote hai jo apne app thik ho jate hai ya fir koi gel use krne pr thik ho jate hai ,unki skin ki sabse acchi baat ye rehati hai ki unky skin pr kisi trhe ka nishan(spot) nahi banta .#dusre vo log hote hai jinki skin pr ek baar pimples nikalna start hote hai toh band hi nahi hote --ek -ek jaghe pr 10se12 pimples hote hai, or ye continuesly niklte rehate hai, pure face pr bohut sare spot's ban jate hai or pura face kharaab ho jata hai, agar iska sahi treatment na liya jaye toh ye 2-2 sall tak rehate hai or agar sahi treatment liya jaye toh 3 mahine mai thik ho jate hai, uske baad app mark/spot ka treatment kr sakte hai,ye pimples problem ceviur category mai aati hai.                                                                                         No more Remedy .........                                         Jab bhi pimples/acne hote hai sabse pehale home remedies yaad aati hai --or idhar -udhar se sunte he ye remedy acchi hai bas usse apply krne lagte hai -kabhi face pr besan apply karte hai toh kabhi haldi , kabhi chawal ka aata-toh Kabhi multani mitti ka face- pack,yaha tak ki Kabhi Kabhi idhar udhar se video dekh kr koi si bhi pimples cream apply krte hai bina ye jaane ki ye usse soot karegi ya nahi, ya fir us cream ke side effects kya hai .                                                                                                                                                  Ye remedies kisko kitna fyada krti hai..              Ye remedies unhi ko fyada kr sakti hai jinke ekka-dukka pimples ho. Leakin jisko ceviur pimples problem ho ussko koi bhi remedy thik nahi kr sakti. Or nahi koi un- prescribed cream.                                                                                                        Parlour treatment sahi hai 🤔🤔👎👎...                Pimples/acne problem parlour mai jaakar thik nahi ho sakti. 1-2percent logo ki thik ho sakti hai Leakin sabki nahi, or ye dubaara na aaye essa jaroori bhi nahi hai, so it also not work.                                                                                                                     Sahi treatment (skin specialist treatment)  or (dermatologist treatment )👍👍👦👧......                                                               Guy's agar pure world Mai kisi ko bhi pimples/acne problem hai toh sirf aap skin specialist ke pass hi jaiye wahi is big problem ko hamesha hamesha ke liye katam kr dege 100percent.skin doctor iss problem ko 3mahine mai permanently katam kr dege, uske baad ye doctors aap ka mark/spot treatment start kr dege, or aapka face bhi billkull pehale ki tarhe koobsurat hi jayega .                                               

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#It's time to new railway seat 💺 act........... Why it's needed????

Hello India,                                                                                                                                                                jab 1 september 2019 ko new vehicle act laghu huwa --jiske tehat Ab koi traffic 🚥 rules break nahi krega "koi bhi bike pr tripling nahi krega matlab ek bike pr 3 log nahi beath sakte hai " issi Se mujhe ye blog likhne ka idea 💡 ayya .                                                                                                                             OR wo idea tha New railway seat act ---ab mai explain krti hu ki aakhir ye act hai kya or ye kyu jaroori hai .jab bike pr log  tripling nahi kr sakte ,kyu ki ye unki or logo ki safety ka swal hai .To trains 🚉  mai over loading kese ho sakti hai ? Jabki train ka safar lamba (8 to 10 hours and 24 hours or Kabhi isse bhi jyada)hota hai .Jabki bike ki duri 1ya 2 ghante (1to 2 hours)ki hoti hai. Issliye agar ye galat hai toh wo sahi kese ho sakta hai ,or agar wo(train overloading) sahi hai toh ye kyu galat hai .                                                                                                                                              (Thoda or details mai chalte hai)                                                                                                           Inme jyada tar middle class or lower middle class log safar (suffer )krte hai.                                                                                        #sleeper class --ek train mai sleeper class ke 10 ya 10 se jyada coaches hote hai, jisme har coaches mai 80 seat's 💺 hoti hai ,jisme aamne -saamne 3-3 birth hoti hai or galary ke side 2-2b birth hoti hai jo kabhi kabhi R. A. C seat's bhi ban jati hai .Sleeper class ka reservation 3-3 mahine pehle krwana padhta hai, Tab-bhi koi pakka nahi hota ki aapko seat mil jaye, app ka reservation ho jaye. Kabhi -kabhi reservation ushi din conform hota hai jise din treval krna hota hai wo bhi sirf 4 ghante pehale . Kabhi -Kabhi logo ko R. A. C se hi kaam chalana padhta hai(pure pesso pr aadhi seat 💺 )                                                                                                                       issme ek or sabse badi problem hai or wo  hai waiting tickets -iska matlab hota hai full payment and no seat -or isme inshaan ko zameen pr beth kr Jana hota hai .Kaafi baar seat's na hone pr logo ko waiting tickets dedi jati hai jisse coach pura full ho jata hai or bohut garmi lagti hai. Toh yaha pr mera ye ? Hai ki agar seat nahi hoti toh waiting tickets kyu distribute ki jaati hai jisse overloading ho jati hai. Or jab koi 4 seat book krwata hai toh sirf 2hi kyu book hoti hai jisse baki 2 logo ko inconvenience hoti hai, agar un baaki 2 logo Mai bacche ho toh unhe kitni problem hogi.                                                                                                                                         #gernal class ---ye wo birth hoti hai jisme lower middle class or middle class inshaan treval karta hai ,or wo inshaan jiski tickets sleeper class mai nahi ho pati jo soachta hai waiting tickets lekar jameen mai bethne se accha hai gernal dabbe Mai bethna kyu ki sleeper class mai koi bhi inshaan Apni seat pr nahi bethaiga balki Apni seat ke samne wali jaghe pr bethne or sone bhi nahi dega .Kam se kam wo inshaan is gernal dabbe Mai haq se jaghe toh bana sakta hai or kehe sakta hai "bhai jara side ho jawo ,thodhi jaghe bnawo ,hamare saath ladies hai ,or Kabhi gusse se kehe sakta hai pesse toh hamne bhi diye hai ,pr yahi baat sleeper class mai nahi kehe sakta kuki waha bakiwo  ki seat reserved hai or usski waiting or unconform". ---main baat ye hai ki isme sirf 108 seat's hoti hai, jisme har ek seat pr 3 log beth sakte hai jisme 7-8 log aam tor par travel karte hai or pure coach mai jaha sirf  108 log beth sakte hai waha 400-450 log travel karte hai. Jisse ye gernal class nahi janwar class coach ban jata hai.                                                                                                         #local class or passanger class --iss train ka use aamtor pr 1-2ghante ke liye office ,college ,school, overall job pr Jane ke liye hota hai .Jisme log latak -latak kr ghulte -ghulte, girte -padte, ek dam behaal hokar  jate hai, kyu ki sabko roz same time pr job pr jana hota hai. Issliye roz loz Apni jindagi apne hath mai lekar chalte hai .                                                                                                              Overloding iss liye hoti hai kyu ki seat's kam hai ,seat's kam hai kyu ki train's kam hai,OR Train's kam hai Issliye reservation ke chanes kam hai.                                                                                                 Issliye mai kehana chati hoo ki train's itni honi chaiye jitni population hai, or tickets utne distribute krni chaiye jitni seat's hai.                                                                             (thank you )

#The new vehicle 🙅act (2019)🙌...........The new revaluation👍👍👍

                           HELLO INDIA  😊                                                                                                                

#Digital world =careless World.......how, why, till when ?

Hello India,                                                                                  digital world sunne mai, bolne mai,read karne mai ,write krne mai, kitna accha lagta hai ,kitna cool lagta hai,kitna smart or kitna advance feel hota hai ,actual mai lagta hai hum kitne high-tech hai,hamari srounding kitni high-tech hai,log kitne high-tech hai,hamari cities bhi kitni high-tech ho gai hai jise aaj ham "smart cities "ke naam se jaante hai ,schools bhi smart or high-tech ho gaye hai, class room bhi high-tech ho gaye hai, "Leakin kya actual mai ham log bhi smart -high-tech -digital ho gaye hai"...???                                                                                                                                                Leakin actual mai nahi high-tech huye ham, nahi smart or nahi"digital".-------agar huye hote toh kabhi bhi hum Apna koi bhi account (facebook ,instagram ,gmail ,or Apna bank account ) kisi ke device mai open nahi karte jahe wo aapka best friend hi kyu na hota ,jahe wo aapka real brother or sister hi kyu na ho.                                                                                                                             Agar ham digital hote toh apne phone ,apne PC,apne laptop ko fully secured rakhte.agar ham digital hote toh uhi har kisi ko Apne device ko use na krne dete.                                                                                         

#kya widow 🙍🙍hona aaj bhi ek abishaap hai? (is being a widow still curse...?)

Hello India,                                                                guy's this is 21century ,21 sadee chal rahi hai Leakin logo ki soch abhi bhi Sati pratha wale yug me atki hai. Aaaj logo ko matke ki jaghe fridge,fan ki jaghe cooler or A.C toh chaiye Leakin nahi chaiye toh nayi soch.manti hoo samaaj or us time ke hisaab Se yahi unki soch ban gayi hai, unhe yahi cheeze sahi lagti hai kuki wo issi mahaol me jitte aaye hai yahi unhone dekha hai or yahi unhone sunna hai, Leakin iska matlab yea nahi hai ki wo  issko (orthodox thinking )ko badal nahi sakte."wese bhi badalna Nature ka niyam hai".                                                                                                               Aaiye dhekte hai me kis abhisaap ke bare mai baat kr rahi hu-----is duniya mai har koi akella aata hai or akhella hi hai jaiga,or yea baat sab jaante bhi hai----fir bhi log kisi widow lady ko ye kyu kehate hai ki tum makeup nahi kr sakti,tum lipstick nahi laga sakti tum brite color ke kapde nahi pehan sakti ,bhale hi usske sage bhai ki shadhi hi q na ho. Tum mehandi ya alta nahi laga sakti chudhiya nahi pehan sakti or agar pehanogi toh simple or plain silver chudhiya, tum kabhi kule Baal nahi chode sakti warna log kya kahege ,tum jada che-chaha nahi sakti bhale hi tum widow banne se pahle kitni chul-buli ladki thi or ha tum kahi aaj -jaa bhi nahi sakti akele toh billkull  bhi nahi bhale hi wo lady 50saal ki hi kyu na ho usske baade -baade baache hi kyu  na ho.                                                                                        Agar yaha pr koi aadmi ho jo widower ho tho us pr ye sari baate laghu nahi karti wo acche se dress-up ho sakta hai baalo mai gel or kapdho mai perfume daal sakta hai us pr kisi ka koi pressure nahi hota, infect log uuse kehate hai beta "move-on".balki ladki ko Kabhi kuch bulne hi nahi dete or unnse indirectly kehate hai beta "never moov -on".                                                                  Ek or baat ----unlucky  or apsaguni wala factor toh rehi gaya ,ye ek orr ghinona such hai jaha ladki ke saath Essa sullok Kiya jata hai jese usse koi serious bimaari ho, usse kisi acche kaam mai samil nahi kiya jata, shaadi ke kisi bhi rituals mai samil nahi kiya jata bhale hi uske kisi sage ki shadhi kyu na ho .Essa toh mene appne khandaan ki ek shaadi Mai dekha thaa or muje bohut bura laga that Lekin Mai kuch kr nahi payi thi kyu ki mai bohut choti thi .Leakin agar dubaara mene apne khandaan mai essa kuch dekha toh mai stand Loogi .